TILDA

My name is Tilda, and I came across Phoenix’s page shortly after my relationship ended. I was struggling, unsure if I should try to fix things even though deep down, I knew it wasn’t an option. Phoenix’s advice was truly life-changing. He helped me see things clearly, understand my own needs, and navigate that difficult time with confidence. Thanks to his wisdom and guidance, I’ve been able to build a stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationship. I couldn’t be more grateful for his help.

Bonnie Beverly

Your advice has helped me become more open-minded by encouraging me to ask deeper, more meaningful questions when getting to know a man. For example, to determine if someone has integrity, ask them to tell you about different situations they’ve encountered and how they handled them. There has to be consistency in their actions, not just in one situation but throughout their life and past relationships. Think of it like job interview questions, such as, “How do you handle conflict?” Asking them to describe a specific conflict, how they handled it, and what the outcome was can reveal a lot about their character.

True connection requires transparency both in communication and in getting to know someone. Instead of presenting a polished version of yourself, it’s essential to be authentic. Knowing your deal breakers and standing by them is just as important.

Your advice also helped me become a better listener, allowing me to pick up on what someone isn’t saying. When it comes to compatibility, applying your guidance makes it clear early on whether two people are truly a good match.